We have more or less settled into a new routine with Umar around.
A typical school day starts with Hubs waking up first to prep for the girls' lunch. I normally cannot function yet at this point coz I have been up every 2 half - 3 hours to feed Umar.
The girls wake up, and get ready for school. J still has a few days here and there which she refuses to wake up. Or she wakes up cranky.
By now, Umar is up again for another feeding. And right after that Abamir wakes up and wants his nen too. Thankfully, both boys are chirpy little people in the morning. If I have to deal with another J at that hour I'd go crazy for sure.
After the girls and Hubs leave for school and work, its time for Umar to have his bath. Amir usually has his first movie at this point. (Currently it is Frozen season)
By 930, both boys are clean and nice smelling. Haha. And Umar will fall asleep; by himself in his cot after tiring himself out kicking and boxing.
I still do not dare to go up and down too much, hence planning is key. When I am downstairs I get whatever needs to be done at one go (laundry, cooking etc) before going back upstairs.
Since currently Umar sleeps most of the time, Amir gets some one-to-one with Mommy during the day for reading, playing etc.
But the 1 half - 2 hour feeding interval still stands.
Petang is usually a mad rush of cook / prep dinner, picking the girls up, having dinner, mandi time for all 4 kids and then settling Umar for sleep. By this time dah Maghrib.
Usually will try to squeeze about an hour with the girls on homework, reading, general catching up before its time for all of them to sleep. And then the night routine with Umar begins.
I am hoping Umar settles into deep sleep quickly so that I don't have to wake up too often at night. As it is, there are good days when he sleeps for a 6 hour stretch. But those are usually followed by one where he wakes up every hour!
And then cycle repeats itself for the next day and day after etc.











